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Texting is the greatest tool for men if they want to build attraction. Why is that? Well, first let's talk about attraction triggers. Attraction triggers are all the parts of you that you have to account for when interacting with someone. How you handle those areas and parts of you will either build or destroy attraction. Those parts (or attraction triggers) are your hair, eyes, smell, confidence, flirtyness, words, timing, clothes, witty remarks, and the list keeps going. The greatest challenge with real world attraction is you have to account for many of these attraction triggers and if you goof up on a few important ones, your success with a woman goes down the drain. This is why texting is the greatest tool! Texting makes it so all you have to account for are words and timing. You text the right words at the right time and you can expect to triple or double your success in dating. I have seen it happen hundreds of times. Flirting is one of the most crucial parts in building attraction and creating a sexual connection. From a rational perspective it's an unnecessary part in communication, that's why it's hard for men to grasp it's importance. Basically, if you can send the right flirty text messages, then you can create that sexual connection without having to deal with all the attraction triggers. I'm going to share with you the 3 Laws that I use when I first start coaching men on how to be more successful at sending flirty text messages: Law #1 - Build suspense with timing (ten minute rule) You must, at times, build suspense when text messaging. It creates the roller coaster effect in your text messages. I always teach the ten minute rule to people that are just getting started in texting... which is, "never send a text message within ten minutes of a vulnerable text message." In other words, if the person text messages you something that makes them vulnerable such as, "ya I'll come over, what time?" or "what are you doing tonight?", you need to hold them in that uneasy (vulnerable) place for ten minutes before giving the relief that everything is cool with you. The point is, women love to feel and be emotionally involved in whatever she is doing. It's a big part of what drives them. So if you can be at the front of that emotional roller coaster she is going to be pulled towards you. It's really that simple. At times, put suspense in your text messages and you will start moving in the right direction. Law #2 - Keep it fun, light and un-needy I imagine everyone reading this article has stressed about sending the right flirty text message. I'm sure many of us have also sent flirty text messages that we wish we could take back and re-write. Both of these scenarios are unnecessary and they only hurt your success with women. In the end she is going to figure out that you are way too involved and needy and it's most likely going to destroy the attraction. The key is to relax. Understand that there are plenty of fish in the sea. Send light flirty text messages and then move on and never second guess yourself. Law #3 - Send Flirty Text Messages NOT Friendship Text Messages Words are the most powerful influence in anyone's life. It determines where you stand in any relationship and how strong that relationship is going to be. Now, I can't just give you a bunch of words to text because it would take a lot more than just an article to explain everything (However, if you want a ton of proven text messages that work you should definitely get the eBook "The Ultimate Texting Guide." It teaches you exactly what to text to be successful with women.) I will give you a few flirty tips to get you moving in the right direction. The main one you need to understand is: use text messaging to build attraction not friendship. This is the area that most men fail because they become so used to sending friendly messages to friends that when it comes time to send a flirty text message, they go on auto pilot and send their normal friendly messages. This really destroys your success with women. The key is to be able to discern between the two. I'm going to give you two text messages. One is friendship building and one is flirty. See if you can feel the difference: A woman text messages two different men and asks if they want to go shopping. The first man sends back "Ya, great. I would love to go. What time?" The second man sends back, "I would go shopping with you, but I don't want you to be tempted to make out with me in the dressing room." By just feeling out the messages, which man sent the flirty message and is building attraction? Yes, the second man. Point is, most men seem to be stuck in the first man's position wondering why they can't have the women they want. Overall, the more knowledge you gain on this the better you will be at discerning between flirty and friendly messages and ultimately it will determine every man's success with women!
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